why does my husband criticizes me constantly

I walk away and go home. The comments from the constantly critical weighing on this thread should bear witness to that. He is so bang on about this. It’s a living death anyway. The torturers life becomes yours. Thanks always for sharing your knowledge and wisdom!! I'm just so so so tired. This is her third marriage and my second. we are very opposite people. My job is very stressful, she doesn’t really seem to care. I love my wife and my family. I have the same thing happening to me. And don't try to fix the criticizer or make them take responsibility.I'm so glad to hear you say you have the self-esteem to set healthy boundaries. Nothing seems to work, which can only mean she doesn't want it to. She will never say sorry in life, but torment others. OH, and no one else living or dead lives up to his standards either. To me, the realization that I don’t have to be perfect, has been SO freeing!!! I've tried taking it, I've tried arguing back roughly, I've tried saying nothing, I've tried ignoring it. I have a part time job and I have met someone who listens and values me and helps me if and when I need it. Only God can. The constant criticism in the article (and the one I am dealing with) is not ‘Hey I would love to talk about your shower behavior…’ it is “why didn’t you shower” – 1 minute – “Ugh… I guess I will do that dish that has been there all day” – 1minute – ‘Why are you working late again’ – the next morning “grass is getting long…” – lunch – “i thought you knew I don’t like mustard… ugh its fine…”Since me and my wife weren’t able to have kids and have 3 failed IVF treatments (going on 4)because I’m not healthy Enough to reproduce. Just wow! He gets defensive over everything I say if it sounds remotely like he is in the wrong. My partner is always criticising me and saying negative things about me. So why on earth does he think it's okay to say such awful things to me?Every interaction I have with my wife these days - every single interaction ends up in a fight. Make room for fun activities together.Amen to that!! Provide the SYMBIS Assessment to the couples in your care starting today. He also feels this way about opinions. After she had left, I found it in a place I had left it a few weeks earlier and totally forgotten. Mrs studies the Bible every day (has read it through over and over). Find a counselor, a pastor, or a trusted friend who can help you work through your thoughts and feelings. The toxic venom he spews out of his mouth because he is overly critical but has zero manners has changed me from a very kind, caring person to a bitter, angry, passive aggressive, exhausted person. Everything is wrong - the way I cook, clean, care for the children, etc. I can’t get through a day without him telling me what I did wrong. It's not about that so quit blaming yourself and being someone's make me happy puppet. You see, most cleaning services rarely come close to meeting even the lowest expectations. Do you have a counselor or pastor you can see right away? Why should I, a simple high school graduate, know more than a string of professionals? I understand that her husband may be an ok guy who just doesn’t see the importance of this but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be informed and required to step up . Determine if the critic is supposed to be constructive or destructive. Being away from the stress he gave me finally meant I could feed her in peace and she learnt to drink well and I could build my supply.But now with our baby being almost 4 months I realize his new favourite game: blaming me for anything our baby does that inconveniences him even if its just normal infant development. I’m not perfect by any means, so if I’ve messed up, I own it and try not to make excuses for why I didn’t do such and so. I am often glad when he’s not home and I can have a day where I’m not being judged. For example, he often leaves cupboard doors and drawers wide open and lids not put on things like jars properly sometimes causing me to spill its content when I pick it up. The “I can take a little here and there” is so true, but it seems that there is something always, almost daily but certainly weekly.

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